I will start.
When you ask a man to listen its not easy for him, he wants to fix things, it is his nature and it is the main reason his female partner cant understand why he is wholly unable to just sit and listen to her problems. She doesnt want your solutions, she just wants you to listen, but this isnt easy for most men, we immediately want to fix everything and make it right so we can get on with things.
Also, men don't like to talk about our feelings to women because when we do, it gets us in trouble!
And women remember everything we've ever said, verbatim, even long after we've forgotten saying it. AND it will be used against us, years and years later, even when the conditions which provoked us to say said things in the first place have completely changed. So we sometimes tend to be a little quiet about certain things.
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