by blouAngel Tue Mar 02, 2010 2:09 pm
Most of what I've read points to a girl without much experience with intoxication who took it too far and ended up making some really bad choices. She was a student at Virginia Tech in Blacksburg, where you can see intoxicated cute girls stumbling around fairly regularly. Despite the image the media may have presented about B'burg, it's a quiet small town and I'd say is one of the safest I've ever lived in. I have been all over Blacksburg by myself routinely at all hours of the day and night in any number of states of intoxication and never had the slightest issue with anyone.
Obviously, violence does happen in Blacksburg, but there are also thousands of really good smart kids there who are fresh scrubbed, innocent, and willing to help someone who needs it rather than take advantage of the situation. The number of teetotaling Christians wearing virgin rings that I met just amazed me and my architecture studios usually had several Campus Crusade for Christ members. A few well publicized incidents aside, both the campus and the town feel that they are safe enough that people behave as though they are and literally thousands of kids every weekend do just fine with that assumption. The problem with living in a bubble is that you may start to believe that the whole world works that way and I believe that mistaken assumption, made in the wrong place, at the wrong time, led to Morgan's death.
I really doubt that it had anything to do with some secret pre-arranged meeting gone wrong. The police would have to know about that. I can't imagine that her friends would withhold any information they knew about that or her state of intoxication considering the circumstances and a secret meeting wouldn't likely have been necessary anyway. She didn't live in a prison and Charlottesville and Blacksburg are a relatively short drive from one another. She was most likely drugged in some fashion by here own choice and as a result left the area despite numerous warnings that she would not be able to get back in. Most every adult I know, myself included, has been lucky enough to have survived making more than one impared foolish decision. It's sad that not everyone is always so lucky.
On the subject of her "weird" parents, they are medical professionals who have spent a great deal of time around dying or dead people. I don't think it is any way easy or a happy event for them to have nothing left of their daughter but her bones. I can though understand them seeing the earthly remains of someone who they loved and who one day happily walked out of the door never to return alive as something to cherish and not to turn away from in horror. We all have bones, and we are all mortal. Decay is essential to life and we all will inevitably decompose back into the elements we are made of. There is nothing weird about acknowledging that even as we wish it weren't so.