by claudicici Thu Mar 11, 2010 10:41 pm
...oh and about the whole immigration issue (which deserves its own thread) the system is completely whacked unless you get married it's nearly impossible to become legal....just an exemple we have this program at work where they bring in foreigners and they get to stay for a year on what's called a j1 visa,well some years ago we had a guy from indonesia,the gm kept telling him oh you're so awesome we're going to sponsor you and so on,well,that's when the tsunami hit in indonesia,this guy lost his mother ,his home ,he literally had nothing to go back to,so all of a sudden the GM said oh we can't sponsor people sorry...so I called immigration and pretended to be HR of my company and it's possible but expensive and complicated so i told the GM and he was like end of discussion ...i was so upset...honestly there's no real chance of becoming legal unless someone pulls the strings for you,it's not a system that's based on any fairness or anything concrete actually ,honestly back when I got my green card I 'm convinced I got it because I was 19,a girl from a western european country and the guy I was talking seemed to like that,there were about a hundred people waiting in the same room at the same time I was there who would have deserved that card so much more than me and they didn't get it and that was over 20 years ago now it's even harder...